Young players have to "figure it out".
Plebes start the path to understanding at the Naval Academy by learning five critical answers: Yes, Sir. No, Sir. Aye, Aye, Sir. Right away, Sir. I don't know but I'll find out, Sir. These answers are simple, clear, and show deference. They are not 'academic' as each has specific usage.
We don't have to agree with someone to respect them. In the military, everyone understands the chain of command. But we can also respect both people and opinions as a courtesy, regardless of their correctness. Work to earn respect so if someone speaks ill of us, others will know our character as worthy.
"Yes, Sir." I hear and I understand. Our place is not to agree or disagree but know the policy.
"No, Sir." ...without equivocation or hesitation.
"Aye, Aye, Sir." Some say the repetition clarifies in noisy conditions. This means that an order is understood and will be carried out. It transcends simple acknowledgement.
"Right away, Sir." This implies immediacy, a sense of urgency. Do it now.
"I don't know but I'll find out, Sir." This response shows intent to follow-through by getting more information.