Things go wrong. Relationships go sour. A book chapter or a column wastes time. Our team gets blown out amidst inferior talent, low energy, or bad coaching.
A fellow assistant once said, "it's unrealistic to expect consistency with players this young and inexperienced." Move on and go back to work the next practice.
Return to "control what you can control..." our attitude, our choices, and our effort.
1) Injury. Our best player gets injured or ill. Prepare the team to go on without her. Everyone has to make "one more" play...get an extra rebound, an extra stop, and extra hustle play. That's a tall order if the injury spans the season.
2) Uncontrollables. We miss a lot of practice because of weather (snow days). Probably our opponents are missing more practice, too. When the Force Majeure (act of God) happens, move on.
3) Talent. "We don't have enough talent." Most coaches have said this, except the master recruiters. Which is why player development matters. "Every day is player development day." That also explains why NIL has developed such a following.
4) Officiating. We couldn't buy a call. Before one game, the officials asked me how they got paid. I explained that I only coach, the league handles payment. We got murdered by the refs. The other coach literally came over to me at halftime saying, "did you steal something from those guys?"
For a playoff game in New Hampshire years ago, the other coach asked me for forty bucks for the officiating. Do you want lottery tickets, too?
In the last fifty games I coached, I don't think the officials determined one outcome.
5) Player attitudes. Sometimes a quote explains it best. Casey Stengel was on to something.
6) Parents. Overall, I'm grateful for the relationships I developed with parents. I'm not delusional; some still hold me (in the words of former House Speaker John McCormack) in "minimal high regard."7) Politics. Because I never took any compensation to coach (no cents?), nobody was after my job. And I'm not after anybody's job...
Lagniappe. Leg training is critical.
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Lagniappe 2. "Low man wins."
Pete Maravich showing the "double clutch dribble"
— The Courtside Vault (@CourtsideVault) January 4, 2025
A unique way to change direction & avoid the defender pic.twitter.com/GCKWNrMy9O
Lagniappe 3. The best players are "professional" in their ability to take coaching.
Pro Athletes at the highest level
— Jamy Bechler (@CoachBechler) January 4, 2025
Coachable ✅
Eye Contact ✅
Active Listening ✅
Respect ✅
Humility ✅
Accountable ✅
~ via @CoachLisle pic.twitter.com/v6CGaZJxRi