I invested about 60 percent of my coaching experience as an assistant - which suited me fine. Ralph Labella did a great job as Head Coach. As a private practice physician, I couldn't always guarantee availability, but that wasn't the only issue.
Assistants:
- Don't have final say on team selection
- Don't have primary responsibility for game management
- Aren't the first line of defense for parental complaints
Head coaches want support, unquestioned loyalty, and assistants who will make their life easier by reaffirming "one band, one sound."
Conversely, I appreciated having an assistant who could supervise one group during three-on-threes at both ends and who provided another perspective to me and to players.
What are your top three from Kevin Eastman's list resonate most to you?
1) You're a coach, your not The Coach.
2) Add value.
3) Help provide solutions not just enumerate problems.
Another assistant, Mark Pearson, provided invaluable perspective. He said that it's unreasonable to expect consistency from young kids. At times they will beat expectations and others they'll underperform. Don't get too high or too low.
Lagniappe. The "hot hand" exists in certain circumstances, yet not necessarily in games because of so much situational variation.
Lagniappe 2. Be a giver.