Crime novel enthusiasts hear about the protagonist’s cred pack (credentials pack), credentials such as agency ID, photograph, and badge.
Writers have cred packs, too. Instead of credentials, it’s credibility. Mine is thin compared with many readers'.
- Over 20 years coaching Middle School basketball (final six as head coach)
- Helped develop two D1 scholarship athletes out of 25 coached as head coach
- Author The Simple Guide to Girls Basketball
- Over 4300 basketball blog posts, Top 50 among Feedspot basketball bloggers
- Coached multiple players earning All-Scholastics, valedictorians
- Captain, Massachusetts Division 1 sectional high school basketball champion 1973
- Wakefield High School Hall of Fame
- Wakefield High School valedictorian, Scholar-Athlete Award
- Board of Directors, Melrose High School Athletic Hall of Fame
- National Merit Scholar
- Retired physician, formerly Certified in Internal Medicine, Pulmonary Disease, Critical Care Medicine
Here are the main ideas he offers about building toughness:
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Embrace Hardship on Purpose
Toughness is built by choosing to do hard things regularly. Kapitulik stresses voluntarily embracing adversity — not waiting for life to throw challenges at you, but seeking them out. This might mean physically demanding workouts, difficult conversations, or leadership challenges that test your resilience. -
The Standard is the Standard
Teams (and individuals) must establish clear standards of behavior and performance — and never lower them, no matter the circumstance. Consistently holding yourself and your teammates accountable to high standards breeds both toughness and trust. -
Team Toughness > Individual Toughness
While personal grit matters, The Program highlights that the toughest teams are those that sacrifice for one another. Toughness means consistently putting the team's needs ahead of your own comfort, ego, or excuses. -
Mental Discipline in Small Things
Daily habits build mental toughness. Kapitulik talks about the importance of discipline in everyday life — being on time, making your bed, finishing what you start. These small acts prepare you mentally for bigger challenges. -
Earn Your Role Every Day
Toughness requires an attitude of constant earning, not entitlement. Whether you're a captain or a rookie, you earn your spot on the team and your influence through daily effort and commitment. -
"We Before Me"
True toughness, especially on a team, requires shifting your mindset from self-centeredness to team-centeredness. Being "tough" isn’t just how much you can endure; it's how much you’re willing to give up for others. -
Leadership Through Example
Leaders must model toughness: doing the hardest tasks, holding themselves to the highest standard, and showing vulnerability when appropriate. Kapitulik calls for "leaders who eat last and serve first."
- Commit to preparation.
- Play harder for longer.
- Foster toughness.
- Be a tracker.
- Promote competition.
Don Meyer 1st Team Meeting, 1994 Bullet Pts:
— JIM BOONE 🏀 (@CoachJimBoone) April 5, 2025
* Don’t go anywhere w/o Pen & Paper.
* We want People who give, not people who take.
* We Must be Tough Mentally.
* Everyone must Play Hard!
* We will never win a Championship if we don’t have a unified Team.
* Love your Teammates. pic.twitter.com/L0eBfqQmey
The NCAA Tournament's Most Unstoppable Play
— PickandPop (@PickAndPopNet) April 5, 2025
Middle P&R with a duck-in (or "Shorting" the pick & roll) has become all the rage in this year's tournament pic.twitter.com/qj1DXUNR65