Screenshot from "Broken," a Karin Slaughter, Will Trent novel
Coaches seldom appreciate unsolicited information. The surest way to make someone unhappy is to tell them how to do their job.
That doesn't invalidate unsolicited information. Good coaches have a read on their personal and team strengths and weaknesses. That doesn't mean that blindspots are nonexistent either.
Coaches rob Pietra to pay Paola. A coach I respect told me that I needed to play my best players more to win more. He was 100 percent correct. In the developmental setting, I committed to playing everyone twice each half and that was challenging with 32 x 5 minutes (160) and 12-13 players. If one player (who earned it) got 28 minutes, that would leave 132 for the other 12 (barely more than a quarter of the game. She usually played about 18-20.
If a couple of other players got even 16 then that would leave 100 minutes for ten players. Players and families have an intrinsic sense of fairness and families pay dearly for gym time, officials, and uniforms. I never took a nickel to coach. Some families track minutes, track shots, track everything. Those families probably thought I was overpaid.
I couldn't justify that degree of unevenness in a developmental setting.
We played man (individual assignment in Newell-speak) defense. Some of the players wanted to play zone. Player development supersedes winning in the player development setting. Want to play zone in high school? Knock yourself out.
Generally, you have "basketball players" and "hobbyists." The basketball players want coaching. How can we do it better? The other players were good kids and worked hard, but differences exist among your primary and secondary sports.
Coaches have voices in our heads "if we only do this, we can win more." Quieting those voices is hard sometimes...for development's sake.
Find good help. I can't say, "hire tough," because people aren't knocking down the doors. The last few years I coached, we had a great assistant. Good guy, calm, positive, solid knowledge of the game and had assistant coached some D3 college ball. I asked him what he thought about Cecilia during her eighth grade season. He said she could have played on his college team without embarrassing herself.
Moments make it worthwhile. After a four-point loss against the top team in the league, the girls said that opposing team parents said, "you were the most competitive team we played." Be worthy opponents. Another time a player tried to take responsibility for a loss. "I was terrible." Bella said, "we win together and we lose together." You don't worry about how she lives as an adult.
Lagniappe. Consistently excellently beats occasionally exceptional.
Jared Goff said, "I've learned to just be consistent."
— Coach AJ ๐ฏ Mental Fitness (@coachajkings) January 14, 2025
"Show up for your teammates every day. That's the hard part, everyone can do it once or twice a week...but try to do it every day."
Champions master consistency.
They know 4 truths about consistency:
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Lagniappe 2. Can you play on a team?
WE NEED PASSES THAT DON’T MATTER
— Steve Dagostino (@DagsBasketball) January 14, 2025
My college coach used to say this all the time. We need passes that connect our offense, and build rhythm. If every player tries to make a play on every catch, the momentum of the ball stops.
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