"There is something about humor that is soothing to the human spirit..." Doris Kearns Goodwin in MasterClass
Use humor to lighten the moment. For a thoughtful, comprehensive piece, check out this Stanford Business School piece.
Sarcasm is not humor. With younger players, sarcasm usually registers as offensive or doesn't register at all. Telling twelve year-olds that if you are in front of a firing squad you want them shooting gets a lot of blank stares. As does asking, "do you get paid by the dribble?"
Let humor happen naturally. We were scrimmaging and one girl (reserve player) was making everything. Finally, she gets a wide open look and misses. She yells "$hit" and each of the thirteen-fourteen year old teammates burst out laughing...and the coaches.
Some coaches are naturally funny, famously Abe Lemons and to a degree Geno Auriemma.
•Be FAITHFUL when you feel fearful.
— Jon Gordon (@JonGordon11) October 22, 2023
•Be POSITIVE when you want to be negative.
•Be THANKFUL when you feel entitled.
•Be LOVING when you want to fight.
•Be GENEROUS when you want to be selfish.
•Be MINDFUL when you want to hurry.
Lagniappe 2.
Incorporate ball handling and footwork into your finishing segments!
— Reid Ouse (@reidouse) October 22, 2023
Here we are working on a “foot switch” in an effort to get back to our “Drop/Split Stance”. Out of this stance we can drive, change direction or shoot.
A great to to combine 2 segments into 1!  pic.twitter.com/04BUUEs4Jj