What is well-being? Well-being implies a depth of calmness and satisfaction. We could think about it as the depth of the ocean, regardless of the surface condition, calm or stormy.
Thich Nhat Hanh wrote The Miracle of Mindfulness. His wisdom benefits us.
"Freedom is necessary for a child's development." (Overcoaching?)
"There are two ways to wash the dishes.
The first is to wash the dishes in order to have
clean dishes and the second is to wash the dishes
in order to wash the dishes." (Are we going through the motions or focused?)
"I think the real miracle is not to walk either on
water or in thin air, but to walk on earth." (Be here now.)
"Keep your attention focused
on the work, be alert and ready to handle ably
and intelligently any situation."
"If we are not in control
of ourselves but instead let our impatience
or anger interfere, then our work is no longer
of any value." (Our emotions are different than who we are.)
"Concentration
power is the strength which comes
from practicing mindfulness."
"Learn to
practice breathing in order to regain control of
body and mind, to practice mindfulness, and to
develop concentration and wisdom." (Take a breath.)
"But to think in terms of either pessimism
or optimism oversimplifies the truth.
The problem is to see reality as it is."
"Practice looking at all beings with the eyes
of compassion." (How do we see our players?)
"In a family, if there is one person who practices
mindfulness, the entire family will be more
mindful." (Change one person to change the team.)
"Doing
your best is the surest way to remind those
around you to do their best." (Model excellence.)
"When a great Master is born, the water in the
rivers turns clearer and the plants grow greener."
"Don't do any task in order to get it over
with." (Engagement not activity.)
"Live the actual moment." (Live the drill.)
"When we have certain thoughts, we are those
thoughts." (Negative thoughts are pervasive. So are positive ones.)
What is the best time to do each thing? (NOW)
Who are the most important people to work with? (WHOM WE ARE WITH)
What is the most important thing to do at all times? (SERVING THOSE AROUND US)
"Often we forget that it is the very
people around us that we must live for first
of all. If you cannot serve your wife or husband
or child or parent-how are you going to serve
society? "
Lagniappe: Bonus BOB from Beilein
1-4 Low set into ball reversal and reverse action.
Diagonal screen to finish.