1. "Pay attention." Attention is a prime determinant of learning. "Be here now." Make eye contact.
2. Be eager. I sat the girls up on the baseline and said, "I need a volunteer." Nobody moved. Fear? Shyness? Does it matter? At camp, practice, tryouts...if the coach asks for a volunteer, you have got to be up like you were shot out of a cannon. "I got this."
3. Differentiate yourself. You must find a way to stand out among your peers. A few years ago a girl wore "rainbow socks". She stood out. A luminescent yellow shirt isn't a substitution for elite size, athleticism, or skill. But if you're on the fringe, you stand out.
4. Play hard. Run hard. Be aggressive. Get the loose balls.
5. Be aware of your body language. The majority of our communication is non-verbal. If a play doesn't go your way, don't hang your head or drop your shoulders. Stay engaged and positive.
6. KNOW that talent isn't everything. Intangibles count.
7. Make teammates better. Throw good passes, move without the ball, set good screens, talk on defense.
