"Better to remain silent and be thought a fool than to speak and remove all doubt." - Abraham Lincoln
We don't need to share an opinion on everything. Sometimes we lack the facts, the background, or the competence.
Other times we lack gravitas or experience such that our opinions will come across as naive or overstepping. "Who the hell do you think you are?"
Many issues polarize those around us. Our opinions may feed controversies over sports, politics, economics, or religion. Weigh the value of sharing our thoughts against the chance of losing friends or antagonizing others. Better to remain silent and to remain friends.
What issues are hot buttons?
- Shot clock mandates
- AAU
- Zone defense in youth basketball
- Comparisons ("Comparison is the thief of joy.") - across eras, players, coaches
- Winning versus development
- Officiating
- Anything money-related
Speaker of the House John McCormack held everyone in "high regard," although his enemies he held in "minimal high regard." We may not like "so-and-so" but criticizing them may compromise chances with their best friend.
Fundamental attribution error. People often judge others based on assumptions about their character, while assessing ourselves based on circumstances. Fewer comments are better.
Comments can hurt because they're personal. Even worse they can be racist, sexist, or elitist.
Comments leave scars. Insulting fans, communities, coaches, or players is a losing strategy.
Comments end relationships. "Don't lose $140,000 scholarship over 140 characters on social media."
Praise for one person can leave another feeling unappreciated.
Criticism of one player can destroy an entire team. Be aware of 'second order' effects (ripple effect).
Work to remember the acronym THINK. Is it True, Helpful, Inspiring, Necessary, Kind?
Lagniappe.
The most underutilized skill in basketball is the ball fake
— Hoop Herald (@TheHoopHerald) May 21, 2024
Amazing how much you can control with a subtle fake
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Lagniappe 2. We played a lot of small-sided games in youth. Do more.
Youth Coaches: The bulk of your practices should be small sided games. 1v1, 2v2, 3v3. A lot of tag, handling/finishing & simple game actions. Know when to cut & shoot, drive & change direction, drive & kick, feed post & cut, space, screen away. This is where learning takes place.
— Jon Beck (@CoachJonBeck) May 21, 2024
Lagniappe 3. Practice isn't enough.
How can players make a big jump next year?!?!
— Steve Dagostino (@DagsBasketball) May 20, 2024
For High School and College players… they all put in work with their coaches. Most of them have a trainer they see to put in work.
So what is the separator?
1. Are you working on the right things with your coaches that are going… pic.twitter.com/PhZ45eA4q5
